Soul ties are powerful emotional and spiritual bonds that form between people, and they can shape your life in ways you don’t always see at first. These ties connect you on a deep level, often through close relationships, sex, trauma, or shared emotions. They can build you up or break you down.

Some soul ties feel natural, comforting, and safe. Others are intense, messy, and confusing. They don’t all come from romance either. Friends, family, and even brief encounters can leave a strong imprint. These ties live in your thoughts, habits, and even your moods, sometimes without you realizing it.

What Are Soul Ties?

Essentially, soul ties are invisible strings between two people. They come from shared experiences, deep emotions, or physical intimacy. Most often, they are created through close relationships like marriage, sex, or trauma. They are not just memories. They feel like part of you.

FM / Pexels / You can have a soul tie with someone and still be miles apart. You can break up with them, move on, but still feel them in your head or heart.

That is because it is a bond, not just a mere memory. You may dream about them, feel drawn to them, or feel stuck because of them.

However, not all soul ties are bad. Godly soul ties are healthy. They form in committed, caring relationships that help you grow. Think strong marriages, deep friendships, or mentors who truly care. These bonds give you peace, not pressure.

Ungodly soul ties are toxic. They often come from trauma, manipulation, emotional neediness, or casual sex outside commitment. These ties can leave you confused, drained, and stuck. They can blur your identity and cloud your judgment.

How Soul Ties Form

Most soul ties start with strong emotion. Sex is one of the most common ways, especially when it happens outside of love or commitment. The physical connection opens the door, but the emotional bond keeps it alive long after the moment ends.

There are four main kinds of soul ties, and they manifest in different ways. Physical soul ties often form through sexual contact and can leave behind a feeling of attachment or longing that doesn’t go away easily.

Emotional soul ties show up in your heart. You feel deeply tied to someone’s approval, attention, or love. Mental ties play out in your thoughts. You can’t stop thinking about the person or replaying conversations.

Spiritual soul ties are the deepest. They make you feel like you share something sacred or eternal with the other person.

RDNE / Pexels / To break an ‘ungodly soul tie,’ first admit it exists. Be honest about how deep the connection runs and how it affects you.

How to Know If a Soul Tie Is Affecting You

You might feel obsessive thoughts about someone who is not in your life anymore. You may struggle to connect with new people because you are mentally stuck in the past. A soul tie can feel like a loop you can’t escape.

You may also notice patterns like codependency, emotional highs and lows, or always needing the other person to feel “okay.” If your peace depends on someone else’s mood, a soul tie may be in play.

Then confess any wrong behavior that helped form the tie, especially if the relationship went against your values.

Next, renounce it. That means saying out loud that you no longer want the bond. Something like, “I break this tie and take back my peace,” can start the process. Forgiveness is also key. Forgive them, forgive yourself, and let go of what is no longer serving you.

Sven Kramer

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